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Facts about Teen’s Brain……

Facts about Teen’s Brain……

Decoding a teen’s brain, is it possible?

Understand the transformation in the growing-up years and lay the foundation for respectful and responsible behavior for the future.

One of the most frequent complaints one hears from parents of pre-teens and teenagers is, “He is so rude to me”, or “she is so cutting and insolent”. Most parents find the transformation of their sweet child into this whippersnapper, confusing and difficult to cope with.

Teen beans.

Teen beans.

Research has shown that several factors play a part in bringing about this change. The most compelling being the change in the pre-teen brain. From roughly the age of ten, the brain starts ‘pruning’ its synaptic connections. (Imagine a gardener trimming down a tree to make it healthier and robust). During this process as many as 30,000 synapses may be lost per second in the early adolescent brain leading to an ultimate loss of almost one half of the synapses that were present in the pre-adolescent period.

During this pruning phase, the part of the brain that is last to develop is the prefrontal cortex – the clear thinking and decision-making part of the brain. However, the emotional part of the brain – the limbic system and the amygdala are alive and kicking. In simpler terms, imagine the teen brain as a powerful car with Continue reading “Facts about Teen’s Brain……” »

First Connection, Second Impression

First Connection, Second Impression

Instead of stressing about the first impression, try making a heart-to-heart connection.

does first impression make the last?

does first impression make the last?

Make a good first impression is the mantra that is chiseled into our minds from a young age. So if we don’t land the job, don’t seal the deal, or don’t get the date, we often blame it on blotching it up in the first meeting. Just as we are so worried about creating a first impression we’re equally precipitous about forming an opinion about the way a person dresses, speaks, greets others or carries himself. All in the matter of a few seconds and if we’re wrong, we’ve shut ourselves from what could have been another beautiful human interaction.

The basis of judgment

Human brain has developed the ability to quickly judge a person’s character. It is cited that is has developed thus, as a necessity to protect us from harm. But studies have shown that judging a person based Continue reading “First Connection, Second Impression” »